Let's End the Domestic Silence

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Happy Thanksgiving,

You have so much to be thankful for. Don’t you?

Join us this Friday, November 27th @ 10 p.m. – midnight (eastern) for episode #19 “Domestic Silence” on The BOOTY Call Show with S-Dot & Friends. We’ll be discussing the current state of relationships between men & women.

Has a “mouth” problem led to a “hand” problem? Suffering from the MJBs? Are you in a verbal or physically abusive relationship? Let’s keep it REAL talk.

“How you gonna win when you ain’t right within?” – Lauryn Hill, Doo Wop (That Thing)

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LET’S END THE DOMESTIC SILENCE…
Many guys today are being henpecked by emasculating women with “mouth” problems that have been socialized to believe they need to conceal a man’s testicles in their purses in order to gain control of him. This has led to countless men running in the opposite direction, tuning them out entirely (notice the rise of skinny jeans wearers), and sadly in some cases developing “hand” problems in response to this abusive behavior. It’s time to end the ‘domestic silence’ in our relationships and have REAL talk about REAL things with REAL people.

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If you or someone you know is involved in an abusive relationship, get help now! Contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1.800.799.SAFE (7233) 1.800.787.3224 (TTY) - it's anonymus & confidential.

FYI: Web Safety Guidelines
If you bookmark this or any other site about domestic violence, the fact that you've been seeking information or help may be discovered by someone you prefer didn't know. So as a safeguard, you may either want to 1) access this site from somewhere other than home; or 2) clear all cache, cookies and history files from your web browser.

See the helpful information below and follow the instructions for eliminating traces of your visit to this website.

Cookies and cache
Temporary Internet files, or cache, contain a "travel record" of the items you have seen, heard, or downloaded from the web, including images, sounds, web pages, even cookies. Cookies are cryptic bookmarks that a website can place on your computer to acknowledge your prior visit, authenticate your access or let you continue surfing a site from where you last left off. They can leave a trail of evidence of where you have been on the web. So if you visit a website on domestic violence and a cookie is created, others can trace your trail and discover where you've been.

Clear the cache for Internet Explorer 6
1. Click "Start" and select "Control Panel." (Note: With Windows XP Classic View click the Windows "Start" button and select "Settings" and "Control Panel").
2. Open the "Internet Options" icon.
3. Click the "General" tab if it isn't selected already.
4. Under the heading "Temporary Internet files," click "Delete Files...".
5. Click "OK" to exit.

Clear cookies for Internet Explorer 6
1. Click "Start" and select "Control Panel." (Note: Windows XP Classic View click the Windows "Start" button and select "Settings" and "Control Panel").
2. Open the "Internet Options" icon.
3. Click the "General" tab if it isn't selected already.
4. Under the heading "Temporary Internet files," click on "Delete Cookies...".
5. Click "OK" for the "Delete all cookies in the Temporary Internet Files folder?" prompt.
6. Click "OK" to exit.

SOURCE: http://www.domesticviolencecenter.org/links-and-resources/web-safety.htm

Are You Wearing A Wire?

By S-Dot for The S-Dot Files

A lot of people can benefit from paying attention to the mistakes of others. Mr. Magic used to famously say on the Rap Attack, "A wise man learns from a fool." If you're in fool's paradise or watching someone else who is PAY ATTENTION.

Don't be a lame, peep Game. The Game don't stop just because you take off your uniform, hang up your glove or decide you to don't want to play anymore.

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On this week's show (episode #18) on The BOOTY Call Show the topic will be "Domestic Silence" that's right, we're going there. Join us this Friday at 10 p.m. - midnight (eastern). Call-in 347.308.8527 click by The BOOTY Call Show with S-Dot on BlogTalkRadio.

Mary J. Blige Syndrome

By S-Dot for The S-Dot Files

Are you still searching for a real love? Do you just want to be happy? Perhaps you're finally just fine now that you've grown stronger. Well, on tomorrow night's The BOOTY Call Show we'll be discussing Exposing the Game's chapter, "MJB Syndrome."

Join us for REAL talk with REAL people about REAL things.



And now without further ado...the undisputable Queen of Hip Hop Soul...

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Lessons From the Well

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On this week's show (episode #14) join us for "Down With O.P.P." a real-talk discussion on love + life this Friday, October 30th at 10:00 p.m. - midnight.

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If you are at the "well" of life, don't let others block your blessings in the lessons that your lived experiences can teach you and others. Don't be ashamed of your journey, claim your future.

Single And Loving It...Kinda Sort Of (lol)

By S-Dot for The S-Dot Files

Okay, today's the ANNIVERSARY. Yeah, me. Go me.

Had to cancel Friday's show because a leadership meeting ran later than expected, but it was worth it. So, now tonight's show is to make up for Friday's and my homie author, overcomer Kimberly L. Scott (Product of Grace) will be co-hosting with me. Hope you can click by and weigh in @ 9 p.m. Call-in 347.308.8527 to share your thoughts.

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Have you been LOLing with someone else? Are you checking their status updates daily? Right clicking and saving their pics?

Yep, you’re having a virtual affair. Don’t deny, all anyone has to do is read those comments.

You should be ashamed of yourself. Never even met them and you’re being such an eHo.

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It’s not you, it’s your hair style. No seriously, it’s your hair style.
If you want that bi-racial look to your hair, this is a very good instructional video from Ms. Jennifer Kemp, a sister that’s practical and informative. I think it’s great who real she keeps it with making sure the process incorporates cost-conscious products. Now, you’ve got no more excuses for looking tore up from the floor. Step your game up.

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Are you also tired of talking about your singleness? There’s really nothing that we have to make excuses for. We’re enjoying our alone time before we have to be considerate and mindful of having a partner. That time will come in its due season. To rush to get into it without coming to an appreciation for your singleness will usually result in that person being a “single-married man/woman.” They will be discontent where they end up feeling as if they’ve settled and they’re missing out on something. Therefore, it’s essential that each of us appreciate our singleness. As Jennifer says: “Be content where you are, and happy where you are.”

Who is Jennifer Kemp? She’s a fashionista that attends the Fashion Institute of Technology in NYC, her style and influence are glam rock and rocker chic that candidly shares her stitch and seam visions and dreams in the blogosphere on youtube and wordpress.

When Real People Talk Fake People Walk

By S-Dot for The S-Dot Files

As you can see The BOOTY Call Show now has a swanky new logo thanks to a collab with my dude JQ from PartyZone.us (good look).

It's great when you can call someone and tell them you need something and they say, "come through, let's get it done." Unlike the haters that always try to run your clock. They'll make promises like, "okay, I'll call you back..." and then you don't hear from until you leave them 3 messages and happen to bump into them someplace. Of course the first thing out of their mouth usually is, "...I got your messages..." which is probably why your mind wonders, "so if you got them, why the hell didn't you return them?" But nonetheless, you watch them fidget around and shift their weight to their right heel, while averting direct eye contact.

TRANSLATION: they're lying.

And it's not even like you're buying it, it's just that...I'm saying. I totally had a point in the beginning of this and then my fingers just kept typing as if I was speaking out loud. I'm not going to delete/edit this. I'm just going to leave it. You see when you're really doing you, you don't worry if others get it - you've got it. It's not that you're on your own d*ck, but rather you're not on anyone elses.

You feel me?

Okay, I've got a meeting to get to in 90 minutes, a show to do in 4 hours and I still don't know what I'm talking about. Imagine that... Hey, I may just play music. You never know. Anyway, tonight on The BOOTY Call Show is episode #12 and it's entitled, "Can We Talk?" This is inspired in part by my co-moderating a discussion next week at EBC. I'll definitely let you know how that goes... Here's the flyer.



Cool huh? Yep, so it's going to be real talk with singles and couples discussing the challenges of waiting, dating and mating in an open forum. I promise to not hog the mic and listen reflectively, exercise restraint and utilize discernment. Seriously, I do. No, seriously I do. LOL

Don't forget, tonight's the night on The BOOTY Call Show @ 10 p.m. - midnight.

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Know Thyself

By S-Dot for The S-Dot Files

Did you know that the reason some people are pains in the *ss is because they're really afflicted with parasites? Seriously, the average person is totally ignorant of the necessity of total wellness because we've been conditioned to rely on healthcare rather than practice self-care.

In the book, "Exposing the Game: Learning How-to Stop Playing Yourself" I delve into a process of removing the physical, emotional and spiritual parasites from your life throughout the book. It's a very thought-provoking dialogue which took many years to research.

Parasites use a Trojan horse plan of attack


This illustration shows how parasites contribute to the formulation of Malaria.

The parasite of religosity is also very dangerous


This is why it's essential that each of us be mindful about the spiritual coverings we submit and commit to ensuring they are in alignment with the Most High, not merely those who have call themselves to laud over others.

What are you giving birth to?


The above is from a person who had a uterine fibroid removed which also spring forth from parasite.

Know thy self...indeed.