Wednesday, December 30, 2009

End of Year Beatdowns!!!

By S-Dot for The S-Dot Files

According to false reports in the New York Post, Queen of Hip Hop Soul Mary J. Blige was involved in a physical altercation with her husband, producer Kendu Isaacs. There have been unsubstantiated reports that Mary remarked to her husband, “What are you gonna do, Chris Brown me?” Wow, that’s illmatic! However, the Daily News has spoken with MJB’s publicist Karynne Tencer who confirmed that the singer was actually breaking up a fight between her husband and brother. There was no retraction printed by the New York Post for getting the facts wrong.

Here’s scenes from the event…

( ( ( sDOTtv ) ) ) now playing MJB the Release Party Altercation

When will the DOMESTIC VIOLENCE end?

Next, up producer Teddy Riley will be ineligible to attend the Real Dads NetworksDaddy Daughter Dance” on February 13, 2010 in NYC because he’s apparently --- NOT A GOOD DAD. The singer was arrested for beating his 18-year old daughter Taja Riley with an electric guitar.

Here are the Riley girls

Yes, an electric guitar. The dispute stems from his daughters being upset about the presence of about the presence of the 43-year old Teddy’s 21-year old 21-year old (same age as daughter Deja Riley) “golddigger” girlfriend. Here are some of the tweets from his two daughters.

So tweets...Ms. Deja

So tweets...Ms. Taja

Stay tuned for updates on tonight's show "Are You A Rooster?" (episode #25) on The BOOTY Call Show - Call-in 347.308.8527 @ 9 - 11pm (eastern).

Wednesday, December 16, 2009

The Vixen Chronicles...

By S-Dot for The S-Dot Files

Hmmm...seems someone wants even more attention. Why does no one see that this young, confused woman's cry for attention is dysfunctional and she truly needs some help?

This isn't the behavior that you encourage of someone that's been a VICTIM it's the act of someone that wants to be idolized at all costs, even to the detriment of themselves. Let's stop looking the other way and recognize that this is a cry for intervention. Puhleeeeeeze!!!

Women you're not empowering yourself by reducing yourself to a jerk-off jumpoff in a men's magazine. You might think that you're gaining control, but you're actually compromising and monetizing your soul. You'll notice how she keeps making mention of others perceiving her as being in league with darkness lately, which is something that should make you pause and take notice of the reality that she's engaged in spiritual warfare, entombed in a mental prison and lashing out physically at her unaddressed demons. I sincerly pray that Rihanna comes to her senses and this senseless path that she's on ends soon. Let's learn from the examples of Aaliyah (notice what happened after she signed on to do that vampire role?) and Left Eye (notice the "manifestations" of paranormal entities she encountered just before her untimely demise?) tragedies when someone is putting themselves at risk. Puhleeeeze someone intervene.

In other news...

The Queen of Hip Hop Soul Mary J. Blige returns with her new album "Stronger With Each Tear" next week. Yipeee!!!

Tuesday, December 8, 2009

Niggativity: the Bondage of a Generation

By S-Dot for The S-Dot Files

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News from the Skinny Jeans War… “Elephants don’t swat flies” – R. Kelly in response to Trey Songz disses (Hmmm...)

Did you miss last week’s show? Well, now you can download Niggativity: The Bondage of a Generation? (episode #22) and the archives to your desktop, iPod and other mobile devices to listen at your convenience That’s right, you can hear it and share it with others.

I had an engaging conversation with motivational authors Corey Washington (“Plain Talk: Everything You Ever and Never Wanted to Know About Racism” a poignant examination of the social musings about race), Hasheem Francis (“Built to Prosper” a wealth-builders empowerment tool) and writer/poet Young Jonesy joined in as well to share some real talk about how the ‘MJB Syndrome’ has impacted the mindset of women in the Black community and the ‘Spirit of G-Money’ has possessed Black men standing around on the intersections of love + life. The chat room was alive with some thought-provoking conversation as well on the socio-political issues of the N-word and the racial identity crisis of this generation.

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Friday, December 4, 2009

Keeping it 100: Do You Already!

By S-Dot for The S-Dot Files

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I just wanted to post this blog announcement for tonight's show (episode #20) at 10 p.m. - midnight (eastern) entitled, "Keeping it 100" which is based upon my forthcoming eBook of the same name that debuts in January 2010 on RTK Communications (stay tuned for details). Here's the books table of contents:

KEEPING IT 100: Being Your Authentic Self by Shaam S-Dot Jones

10 FACE OFF Looking in the Mirror

20 YOU DOWN WITH OPP? Other People’s Problems

30 SWAGGER v. SUBSTANCE Beyond the Smoke and Mirrors

40 WHY YOU’RE STILL NOT MARRIED From a Hoe to a Housewife

50 METOX: Get Over Yourself Already!

60 THE RULE OF K.I.M. The Keeping it Moving Principle

70 DON’T STOP THE LOVE Developing a Hi-Hater Plan

80 NOW THAT’S REAL TALK Got Questions? Get Answers

90 GETTING YOUR MIND RIGHT The Empowerment Tool Box

96 S-DOT SPEAKS Interview with an MVP of the Game


“My minds telling me no, but my body’s telling me yes. I don’t see nothing wrong with a little bump-n-grind.” – R. Kelly

1. Last night, I had to break up a real-life Chris & Rhianna drama, so of course you know we'll be talking about that and the recent "Tiger Woods" drama too. It's going to be real talk. The gloves are off, it's time to have some no holds barred conversation about passive-aggressive women and abusive men embroiled in narcissistic relationships that are dysfunctional. Let's continue last show's "Domestic Silence" dialogue (go back and listen to episode #19 in the archives)

Real Talk: If you want to get married, you need to work on being single.

2. We'll have some movie therapy using the film "Not Easily Broken" starring Morris Chestnut & Taraji P. Henson which deals with a couple at a crossroad when her mama won't stay out of their business. Are you down with O.P.P.? - Other People's Problems? Listen in and learn how-to mind your business and focus on getting your mind right.

Name five movies that inspire you:

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2. ____________________________________________________________________________

3. ____________________________________________________________________________

4. ____________________________________________________________________________

5. ____________________________________________________________________________

Name the movie that best describes your life:


3. Do you need a Metox? Is it time for you to get over yourself? We'll be sharing some practical tips and insights on how-to get to next-level in your personal development.


Stop handcuffing those trying to get free. If you don’t want to be with them, let them go so they can grow. There’s no need to hate on them.

4. We'll delve into our Now That's Real Talk - got questions? get answers segment. Here's tonight's question:

Dear S-Dot,

I can’t stop thinking about an abortion I had when I was 16. It’s been over 12 years, but I still keep dwelling on it. Every year I have nightmares around the time of what would’ve been my due date and this has been an issue in getting close to others. My fiancĂ© says he wants kids, but I feel like I don’t deserve to be a mother. I haven’t shared this with him. Any thoughts how I can get past this?

What advice would you give this person? Join us in the chat room or call-in to share your thoughts. Help a sister out!

Feel free to forward this to others (hint, hint - smile) and I look forward to speaking with you tonight at 10 p.m. - midnight (eastern) on The BOOTY Call Show presented by The S-Dot Files exclusively on BlogTalkRadio.

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