Wednesday, February 25, 2009

Almost Perfect


I just clicked by my friend's page to leave a comment of this video and it then I actually watched it, and had some thoughts to share...

( ( ( sDOTtv ) ) ) now playing A Different World "Save the Best for Last 1"

A few years ago, I dated a woman that was the cats meow to hear my dude tell it. Oh, don't get it twisted --- she was a wife-piece. Accomplished. A six-figure investment banker. Intelligent. Socially outgoing, well-versed in the comings and goings in Gotham and globally cultured. She drew all eyes whenever she stepped in a room. The wattage of her beauty radiated even brighter because she was so unaffected by it.

Our birthdays were one day apart. We shared so many commonalities that to all that encountered us they simply said, "Wow, you two are so good together." Not just people we knew either. Strangers. We'd walk down the street and tourists would stop us in midtown and tell us, "You are going to make beautiful children." And I agreed. Did I mention how all caps F-I-N-E she was?

Now, to make it even more interesting she came from a moneyed family. Not just a few bucks. Moneyed as in, "Hey, if you two get married, we'd like to buy you a $2 million duplex as wedding gift." So, as I was saying my dude swore she was the cats meow....

Let's take a videoclip break. Go get a cup of something, this might be a minute --- Hey, The S-Dot Files it's not just a blog, it's an experience (smile).

( ( ( sDOTtv ) ) ) now playing A Different World "Save the Best for Last 2"

Okay, let's keep this going (you're welcome K.I.M. - lol)

( ( ( sDOTtv ) ) ) now playing A Different World "Save the Best for Last 3"

So, as I was saying...I had this F-I-N-E woman, yet I still couldn't commit to her. Why? Because I was intimidated by the reality that she was everything that I prayed for. PERFECT. I was absolutely terrified. She could finish my sentences. She understood, supported and corrected if necessary my motives.

Oh --- she did not do cooking. Hey, ALMOST PERFECT.

Let's what another videoclip. What will Whitley do? Is she really going to married old boy? Mama Carroll is so F-I-N-E ain't she?


( ( ( Peep It On the Download ) ) )

Check out a FREE excerpt right now


OVERCOMING the BOOTY: Breaking the Sex Hex

It’s time to get healed and be delivered!



I’m going to keep it real talk in the hopes that someone will recognize that they could be making better life choices. Let me begin by saying, I am not perfect, period. I have many flaws. The biggest of which is recognizing when I have flaws. However, I’m growing in coming to a greater knowing of true self.

There are some ties that bind families generationally. In my family, womanizing is a well-practiced pastime of those who provided my education on relationships.

For years, my “boys” and I thought being a “man” was playing hump and dump with women. So, I focused the bulk of my time and energy on beguiling women. I had the magic stick. So, I learned to manipulate, misuse and abuse them for my pleasure and then discarded them.

One fated night, I got out of bed and screamed at the top of lungs, “God, I need a remix!” I was sick of worrying about getting that sickness that everyone doesn’t talk about, but has nightmares about. And I was tired of being tired.

I was addicted to booty. It had me jonesin’ hard. And I felt the “sickness” was stalking me, just a condom break away from being like those smiling idiots on those posters, “living with HIV/AIDS.” I watched so many people I know get it and die. It began to grow closer to me and that fear led me to reexamine my addiction to booty.


I spent 31 years of my life consumed with sexuality which has given me a broad range of knowledge on sensuality from a practical, social, spiritual and scientific perspective. My indulgences in flesh as an avowed hedonist led me to becoming a lust conjurer. Someone that is able to beguile and bewitch others wielding the power of lust craft for self-gratification.

Someone skilled in this area is used by the enemy to coerce and tempt others to embrace compromise as a lifestyle. A person that adheres to this paradigm of intimacy will be highly adept at using various methodologies and philosophies to advance this agenda.

Getting to bottom of the situation

When a player wants to strike it rich they’ve got to master the combination to unlock the pleasures of the “vault.” What is the vault? The Uterine Fornix (“Fornix Uteri”), which is often called the “bottom” and is commonly known as the “arch” that divides a woman’s vagina between the anterior (front) and posterior (back) walls.

From the book that's inspiring a movement, OVERCOMING the BOOTY: Breaking the Sex Hex - Available Memorial weekend 2009.

E-mail: to be a FREE copy of chapter one, "From a Player to a Prayer" today!

( ( ( sDOTtv ) ) ) now playing A Different World "Save the Best for Last 4"

So, what happened? I broke up with her because we were not equally yoked. She was a Muslim and I'm a Christian. Her family wanted me to convert back to the faith of my youth, but I was not on the same page theologically. She wasn't active in her faith, but this was a deal breaker for her parents, and I held firm on my part.

We continued to date while she tried to show me the 'benefits' of being a man that could have all that he desired. A beautiful wife. Wealth. But, no Christ. At least not with the reverence for Christ that I have. A respect. An admiration. A profound appreciation, but not someone that would run into a church like Dwayne Wayne and scream, "...Baby...will you? I love you and if you'll have me..." And then I would scream, "I do!" But that Christ thing... I broke the deal.

Lord, I know the wifepiece you have for me is worth waiting for.

Shout to those with that Dwayne Wayne swagger that will go get who God has ordained for them...

Divine favor!

S-Dot is a personification of an example of God's transformational ability to remix a person. He lived for the world in the entertainment industry for two-decades, until his up-close and personal 'Damascus-like' experience with God. Today, he burns with an unquenchable passion for presenting the practical teachings of the Word of God with everyday relevance appealing to those seeking transformational change through the Way of Truth.

An anointed writer, inspiring creative visionary, and empowerment coach, S-Dot is currently slated to debut "OVERCOMING the BOOTY" a relational intimacy handbook for those seeking real love over lust in the spring of 2009. Also, he's gearing up for the "Man of Purpose" tour in support of The S-Dot Files' appearances on the "The Leading by Achieving Conference" and various other events in partnership with the Real Dads Network.

To book S-Dot or for informational inquiries e-mail:

The Dot Team

Wednesday, February 18, 2009

New York Post Calls President Obama A Monkey!!!

"They'll have to find someone else to write the next Stimulus Bill" this illustration is clearly over-the-top. I could laugh at the Alfred E. Newman Mad magazine comparisions with the big ears. Those are funny, this is downright disrespectful.

What do you think?

(share your comments)

Monday, February 16, 2009

Join the OVERCOMERS Movement

( ( ( Peops Advisory ) ) )

"You can't have a movement standing still" - S-Dot, from Volume Two: "Reset the Atmosphere"

What's good?

The Dot Team
is slated to begin production on the cross media campaign for the 1st book, OVERCOMING the BOOTY: Breaking the Sex Hex in the next few weeks and I'd like to involve my myspace, facebook, youtube, etc. fam in the process. Here's what I need:

1. Individuals interested in participating in 10-minute segments of the one-hour call-in interview program. You will be sent a PDF-formatted excerpt from the book so that you can generate a question to be addressed by S-Dot and a panel of relatonship counselors.

2. Individuals in the NYC tri-state area who would like to appear on-camera in the in-studio audience for the 20-minute segment spots for one of the 12 chapters. There will be a total of 14 spots filmed, but each person may only be featured in one. You will be sent a listing of filming dates and locations.

3. Individuals interested in joining the ( ( ( Got Buzz? ) ) ) collective our online virtual street team helping spread the word and generate feedback via social network platforms - myspace, youtube, facebook, etc.

4. Individuals skilled in the areas of web 2.0 (social media) production to create and disseminate dynamic content across multiple platforms. Must provide active links to completed projects.

Please send all inquiries of interest to:

Thank you,

The S-Dot Files


Sunday, February 8, 2009

Change Is A Process

Isn't it great to be living in this season of manifestation of revelation?

God is moving in so many ways, in people's lives and situations. All a person can do is simply be in awe of His grace. It's great to see Whitney Houston back out and about and looking really good these days. 40s looking right on her. And that extra meat makes her even dare I say it...hotter (okay, I'm praying already - lol).

Take a look for yourself. Welcome back Whitney, I was praying for you.

( ( ( sDOTtv ) ) ) now playing Whitney Houston @ 2009 Grammys

Remember, Change is a process!

Continue to lift our first family up in prayer and all those that are in positions of leadership at this hour.

Wednesday, February 4, 2009

Meet the Mad Blogger...He's Pretty Mad

Well, as a social media mogul I'm often contacted by individuals that seek to promote whatever they've got going on or whatever. You know the Rick Loss' (not a typo) of the world. So, of course I know that sooner or later one would show up...

Ladies and Gentlemen...introducing the Mad Blogger (he's pretty mad)

( ( ( Whoa! ) ) )


Okay, for those of that haven't read the recent blog, Thieves in the Temple click by and check it out. Here's today's comments being exchanged. Yep, it's getting crazy.

Thieves in the Temple

SYNOPOSIS: In the following exchange S-Dot find himself embattled by an individual that has been very vocal about his issues with organized religion - Christianity and Islam. He's an adherent to the 'do me' religion and practices me-ology, the science of self-mastery. His held beliefs are that we each can pillage and plunder whoever we want as long as we want because even "our book" (as he calls it) says we are "gods".

Enjoy!!! (warning - he's pretty pissed off - no really, he is... LOL)

Wow..!!! ok... let's get some facts straight.. Kundalini Energy - Yes.. Serpentine...yes I'll gladly take that.. "For it says in your book.. I think it is Matthew 10:16 (behold, I send you forth as sheep in the midst of wolves: BE YE THEREFORE WISE AS SERPENTS, AND HARMLESS AS DOVES.).. Also in Psalm 82:5-6 (They know not, neither will they understand; they walk on in darkness: all the foundations of the earth are out of course. 6. I have said, Ye are gods; and all of you are children of the most High. )... ok.. what is my point you ask???..Well if the serpent is so bad or the "Devil"..why would "Jesus(God) Christ(Teacher)" use it... that would be a strange thing to tell people to take on the attribute of an adversary..wouldn't it???.. WITCHCRAFT??? first you have to define it.. if you want to be real about it.. if you were to jump back in time when there were not such things as airplanes, cars, electricity, natural medicine..and brought it to medi..Me Devil) Europe.. the priests would have had you burned alive at the stake like Joan of Arc..just FYI.. I use Joan of Arc as an example because it was mainly women (and also those who used their feminine principles WISELY (there is that serpent again) which are Thought, Creativity, Communication, Compassion..just to name a few..were persecuted for being "heretics" against the same religious organizations that are still around today..even your boy "Jesus Christ" was persecuted for going against the church.. (Judaism, Catholics (which is the father of Christianity), and many other similar denominations..that existed at that time.. the modern day people of these religions are now celebrating the "DEATH"..of a man/god who came to help the people out of the darkness..not die for the "sins" of anyone.. especially for the unborn 1000's of years later.. Truth is not is relative.. for example can we live on Jupiter or any of its moons (not all moons look or have the same attributes as ours)..probably not.. but is that to say there isn't life living on them..absolutely not.. or what they worship as "GOD" is wrong??..that would be totally foolish..wouldn't you think?? We as human beings (gods in the making) are ignorant to fact that we are not alone out here in the universe.. what maybe good for us is not necessary good for someone else living out there in the cosmos.. to bring it back to earth..we are all a microcosmic aspect of what is above..thus the expression "As above so below"... and don't knock the true ancient Egyptians (or correctly the people of upper & lower KMT) them and the Ethiopians and you can see where Christianity and other religions originated.(but that's just my humble opinion)..their civilization predates all European cultures by 10's of thousands of years..(I'm going out there before the year is over...a necessary trip for me..).. I'll just say this..if what you say and "preach" is your truth.. so be it.. who am I to say you are wrong.. but to say you are absolutely right is wrong..and that those such as myself who have a different "view" of life..GOD/Divine giver of all life-forms.. are wicked.. and witches and LOST.. does not say much for the "Christian way of thinking".. or maybe it does.. I recently was in a conversation with a young Christian woman..who was upset with her Deacon Dea(-n.Goddess) con(-adv negative or against) (Oppositon of feminine principles of GOD)..that some young people were not allowed to sing at young people's gospel show because they were not "saved".. this is not the first time I've witnessed such peculiar situations in the world of religion).. is this to say all church goers are bad or lost people.. no way.. but you have to take the good and the bad... what I find to be my truth..many use it for selfish and "evil" purposes.. just like you know some preachers within your religion know nothing about GOD..but love that congregation offering basket.. to the point where they put an ATM in the church.. wasn't this the same thing "Jesus" was speaking against???? I would never call you "evil", wicked or lost.. because my truth is not designed to tell you that.. those things are for the individual to figure out and how those terms relate to their situation... all the wise cracks..."In Living Color".. "Method Man Astral Plane"... water down intellectual meetings of minds both perusing a higher level (heavenly) of thinking and being.. and those that post comments with "LOL's" need not comment..because there is no room in the conversation for lower level thinkers..not mad at're just not ready to really get into these type of convo's.. "A witty comment does not mean a person is intelligent." With that said..I look forward to reading more of your interesting blog's.. you don't really appreciate good blogs until we really read what's out there.. I'll leave comments where I feel I have something to always.. peace and many blessings on your "heavenly" journey..may you find "your" truth...

Posted by February 4, 2009 - Wednesday - 10:21 PM

( ( ( S Dot ) ) )

Dude. seriously that comment was blog length. Is it just me people or are we all witnessing someone taking this just a little TOO seriously? Wow, you "others" really need to work on your sense of humor. When I was on the "other" team, I tell you... I definitely wasn't standing around commenting about sin, I was too busy out doing it. You're squandering that time you have left on this earth. This sounds wrong...but since you're not into my "Jesus" (Yahushua/Isa/Yeshua) or that "mystery" God I pray to, "boy get on out there back to earning your place in eternity." You youngin' can't even sin right. Why, I tell you. I was an O.G. of sin. I was a full-fledged hedonists. I've forgotten more sin than you can remember... Hey, the Holy Spirit (I know you don't really rock with Dude either) just hit me with this: I think that you really want to be on Team Elo-him, but you're just afraid to take a dip in the pool. Scaredy cat. It's okay. Girly man. Dude, I did. Wussy boy. And I can't even swim. It's only water. Trust me, you'll feel so much cleaner afterwards. No, I don't have my fingers crossed. We don't do that sort of thing around here. Oh, but wait you were talking about a lot of other important stuff in your comment. Dude I'm sorry, but I'm way too overjoyed about living blessed and abundantly favored to think on this earthly level. Wait...I'll try to focus. Ethiopians...Europeans. Blah, blah, blah. Nope, I'm not going to be able to. Sorry. But, thanks for the really long comment. I'll re-read it again later (wink, wink). I'm going to go dance with the Lord right now. And dude, I used to be a whorelock, so trust me I know that God can remix anyone. Yep, even you. C'mon get in this water. LOL.

Posted by ( ( ( S Dot ) ) ) on February 4, 2009 - Wednesday - 10:54 PM

Click by and read why The Mad Blogger is so mad, check out Thieves in the Temple

A Message to the Mad Blogger

Hey boyfriend (it’s sad I have to make this disclaimer put here it goes – no homo),

I thought I told you that God won't stop. Eh eh!!! It's okay if you're afraid to change buddy, but change is good. Aiight.

Your friend the 40-year old re-Virgin (1-4-3)